I honestly don't know what expect from a site like this. It seems like JUST the place to meet someone with nerd blood in their veins as likely as it is to be a dark pit of despair.
I'll keep it simple for now. I've been foam fighting since 1988, mostly Darkon but also Dag and Amt. Clearly a huge part of my life. After 30 years of fighting though my body is feeling the pain. But there is nothing else like it, there is no replacement for all the things that come with it. Clearly a large part of my life. I often wonder who I would be if I never fell into this crazy hobby. Likely a very different person.
I'm happy, I've done the work to be so. It would be great to meet someone who is in the same place. If you're a spiritual human who is compassionate, open, honest and happy to be alive on this rock we should get along swimmingly. INFP personality, I can't do small talk, gotta dig deeper to open me up.
There's more. Much more if you're interested.